"What remains after all our experiences in life?" Do we really learn something out of each experiences? Or there is no ending for learning. I am not sure why life keeps on teaching things to us by consistently keeping us in struggles, puts us with back stabbers, situations that involve failure, betrayal, back biting, jealousy, rejection, that leads to agony, self pity, desperation, depression, worry, uncertainty, sadness, poverty, insecurity, and so on. Why would we go through all this?
On the other hand, we also go through good situations such as being loved, cared, appreciated etc., But these situations fail to make an staunch impression on our minds, but only the bad ones be remembered well enough by us. Are we really conditioned to forget the good things and remember only the bad things happened to us? If yes, can we change our thinking pattern? Is that so called 'Neuro-Linguistic Programming' possible?
I think, yes, but only to a certain extent. We can quickly recover from our defeats and jump into another fight, but we cannot promise anyone or be promised by anyone that we would definitely win that fight. Because winning or losing is not in our hands. I cannot promise my wife that I would get a job in a week's time without even knowing whether there would be an interview call or an invite for a walk-in. okay, if I get an interview call, again I am not sure, how many others have been called for; how far are they trained & skilled for the job and how much is my winning percentage? If I clear the rounds of interview, whether the company would pay me as per my expectations is another question. If yes, again how far would be my upcoming boss be supportive in my work and present my work in good light to the management.
So I cannot completely depend on myself. I have to depend on others too. So I start to forgive. I decide to keep a low profile towards my boss and my management so that I save my reputation and my job. Because as per the corporate ethics we learnt that "No matter how much you can perform, you can always be replaced". I now work on my skills on bending down and keep a smiley face for insults and hell load of work. i think I am saving my ass and my job, but am I really happy doing this? Hell NO!! So is there any meaning in doing this shitty piece of work? So here comes the wisdom like the Sun dawning to get rid of the darkness.
I undergo this pain to keep my family, my kids happy and to provide them with food, shelter & clothing. If I am not happy doing this, I cannot see myself being happy about my living. when I am reaching a stage that I educate my kids as per their aspirations and ensure that they can take care of their life, I win my battle that moment. Till then I need to be positive and keep working on all the bad situations. Will I win my battle? How will I win my battle? By going through these tough situations of life that breaks me in to pieces; tears down my dignity; thrashes me in to the ground by betrayal; slaps my ego with backstabbers, I must keep my spirits high and go on walking towards my goal. Unless I do this I cannot win my battle. I fight this battle to keep my people strong. I can win this battle by not quitting at any cost. What remains after all these fighting experiences? It is my Self satisfaction. That should be the nectar I get after all the snake bites.
On the other hand, we also go through good situations such as being loved, cared, appreciated etc., But these situations fail to make an staunch impression on our minds, but only the bad ones be remembered well enough by us. Are we really conditioned to forget the good things and remember only the bad things happened to us? If yes, can we change our thinking pattern? Is that so called 'Neuro-Linguistic Programming' possible?
I think, yes, but only to a certain extent. We can quickly recover from our defeats and jump into another fight, but we cannot promise anyone or be promised by anyone that we would definitely win that fight. Because winning or losing is not in our hands. I cannot promise my wife that I would get a job in a week's time without even knowing whether there would be an interview call or an invite for a walk-in. okay, if I get an interview call, again I am not sure, how many others have been called for; how far are they trained & skilled for the job and how much is my winning percentage? If I clear the rounds of interview, whether the company would pay me as per my expectations is another question. If yes, again how far would be my upcoming boss be supportive in my work and present my work in good light to the management.
So I cannot completely depend on myself. I have to depend on others too. So I start to forgive. I decide to keep a low profile towards my boss and my management so that I save my reputation and my job. Because as per the corporate ethics we learnt that "No matter how much you can perform, you can always be replaced". I now work on my skills on bending down and keep a smiley face for insults and hell load of work. i think I am saving my ass and my job, but am I really happy doing this? Hell NO!! So is there any meaning in doing this shitty piece of work? So here comes the wisdom like the Sun dawning to get rid of the darkness.
I undergo this pain to keep my family, my kids happy and to provide them with food, shelter & clothing. If I am not happy doing this, I cannot see myself being happy about my living. when I am reaching a stage that I educate my kids as per their aspirations and ensure that they can take care of their life, I win my battle that moment. Till then I need to be positive and keep working on all the bad situations. Will I win my battle? How will I win my battle? By going through these tough situations of life that breaks me in to pieces; tears down my dignity; thrashes me in to the ground by betrayal; slaps my ego with backstabbers, I must keep my spirits high and go on walking towards my goal. Unless I do this I cannot win my battle. I fight this battle to keep my people strong. I can win this battle by not quitting at any cost. What remains after all these fighting experiences? It is my Self satisfaction. That should be the nectar I get after all the snake bites.
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